PROTECT OUR CHILDREN!
BY DG WILSON
WE MUST ALL DO OUR PART TO PROTECT OUR CHILDREN! There are very simple things that we can do with our kids that will help them understand a very important lesson: NEVER believe a stranger over your parents!
Teach your kids that some people are bad and want bad things.
Tell your children that you will love them even if they think they have done something bad.
Make sure that you understand your child and look for things out of the ordinary.
If your child even HINTS at an adult treating them badly, pick up on it and ask questions. If the answers are too difficult for your child to say then ACT OUT the conversation with toys, puppets or even draw the story out so you can ask questions based on the image.
Ensure your child, help them understand that when adults want something they act nice, or very mean. If an adult wants your child they will usually act one of those two ways. Instruct your child to listen to YOU and those that YOU trust...not some nice guy or girl that is a stranger.
MOST repeat molestations happen with someone that the parent trusts and has instructed the child to follow. This is why it is important for communication between your child and you.
MOST repeat molesters act like they are too good to be bad and ABOVE SUSPICION.
Look for cameras in bathrooms and dressing rooms. A really great way to find them is to take a small flash light with you and shine it at dark corners, vents, holes in walls and or floors. If there is a reflection with the light bouncing back that is because the flashlight is hitting the camera lens.
Two way mirrors are easy to find too! Some bad people have a camera rolling behind a dressing room mirror to find them simply shine the flashlight at the mirror. If it is reflected back into the room you are good to go...if however it does not and seems to shine THROUGH the mirror then you have another room on the other side.
Keep the bad guys AND WOMEN away from your children. BUT also teach your child that an attack comes down to them. Look out for the signs of some adult that is too nice, friendly, above suspicion, deals with children all the time AND wants to be alone with your child. Also look to see if they have a TOO GOOD connection to the kids, are they like a kid themselves? Do they have any childish tattoos, things that you will find odd on people like children book characters or art that is geared to kids?
Abductions are somewhat rare compared to the good man or woman that deals with children all the time. These people that steal kids don't have the discipline to appear good all the time nor able to hold a steady job so they just take the kids. To stop this make sure your kid knows that they MUST NEVER go to another location with that person EVEN IF THEY HAVE A GUN! The place where the child is confronted will have others around, a mean and threatening tone will usually make the child get into the car with the stranger UNLESS you have practiced and instructed with your kid NOT to go. (Remember though that they may act nice to get the child close to their car or apartment THEN act mean.) But the reason to never go to another location is because the bad guy will take the child to a place that THEY control, where there will be no other people around.
Your kids have at least TEN TIMES the amount of energy and speed that the bad guys have, use it! Run around and get away! Drop books, bags, coats and MAKE A LOT OF NOISE! THE BEST NOISE IS BREAKING GLASS! EVERYONE LOOKS WHEN GLASS IS BEING TRASHED!
The most important things that you and your children need to know is that there ARE bad people out there hunting all the time. Books like STAY SAFE, STAY SMART by DG Wilson will help your kids know what to look for and why. Talk to your kids because an attack will NOT happen when you are around, but when the child may be alone...or with their other friends. Teach your kids NO MATTER WHAT come back home!
Thank you, and email this to your friends, relatives as well as coworkers!
